One thing done is a good day
I am staying with my parents this week. What I realize is that staying with them means operating on a different time schedule. The answer to: how long will it take to do anything? As long as it takes.
So what I get to learn is that pick one thing to accomplish each day and only one thing. Now that is a different mind set for me. I typically set up pages of things to accomplish each day. I find the value of working with my parents is that I learn to pick the most important thing for the day.
And that important thing for them is not always what I think is the most important thing.
That forces me to ask myself, “ who do I serve here?” I have slowly learned how to be there for them and not take over their life. It is a gift to be able to add value to a loved ones’ life and enjoy the things that they want to do. It is a challenge to balance my ideas of important with their needs.
I start to appreciate the value of letting the little things stay undone. I now understand how much of my do to list can be the little things. So here is my challenge to you. What would happen if you started each day with a clear idea of your most important goal for the day?
Do you have a good method for sorting the little things out for the important things? Some days this is hard because everything feels urgent and important.
Here are a few questions to help you sort.
What would happen if I did not accomplish this today?
In the big picture of life what is the value of this thing I want to accomplish?
Who does it serve?