Habits can be helpful or they can be so automatic that we forget to reflect if we could improve or change a process to make it easier.
What makes us push through the toughest possible path because it is what we have always done? What stops us from trying a different path to see if it might be easier?
I had a dream last night. I love swimming. It feels good, improves my mood and gives my brain a rest while my body gets a great workout.
In my dream the pool was full and in each lane people were just floating in small boats taking up all the space. If I attempted to swim with the boats, I would hit my head, have to stay underwater or just get pushed around by the boats. Even when I asked nicely, the people in the boats were not willing to move for me. So my dream self decided if I wanted to swim I would have to give up on the pool and just go swim in the air.
Dreams are magic. What I discovered was how fun and easy it was to swim in the air. Why had I not tried this before?
If you find yourself pushing through obstacles, consider how you might go around them. How could you avoid the obstacles and make life easier? Is there a path or new idea you could try? Play the “what if” game. What if this might work?
What if someone else has a good idea? How could I make this process easier?
What patterns do you have that might be improved by trying something completely different? In my dream I was free to explore unheard of possibilities. In real life you will benefit by thinking as if anything were possible. Surprise yourself by taking a different path and see what you learn.