Free Life Coaching May 2020

 

Free Life coaching for the month of May 2020

Uncertain times call for bold actions.  Yes, Free life coaching for the month of May 2020- no strings attached.

 You can contact me below to set up your 30 min call. 

 Donations are accepted based on your situation with no expectations on my part.

Why offer life coaching by donation?

 I feel as unstable as anyone with the level of uncertainty about our collective future. What I do know is how to provide life coaching with a focus on managing stress. There is plenty of extra stress and fear operating in our lives right now.  Coaching gives me an anchor and helps me stay grounded. Coaching is about seeing solutions instead of only seeing the problems.  When you engage in coaching you will focus your awareness on solutions with a positive attitude. That is why I am offering free life coaching for the month of may 2020.

Life coaching is a way to help you sort through your choices and decisions. A coach is there to listen to your plans and concerns. Life coaching is a useful tool when you feel like you have lost your way and don’t know how to begin to find a starting point to move forward. In times of stress it is easy to get stuck in old patterns. Sorting out closets is easy compared to sorting through emotions in your brain. Life coaching provides a path to move forward in the midst of uncertainty.

 

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How to make walking fun

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10 ways to add fun to your walk

Walking in your house or outside is the easy way to get some exercise these days

With social distancing in place, walking alone is the new pattern. Here are 10 ways to add fun to your walk.

  1. Vary your stride- take high steps, long steps or walk sideways
  2. Do arm circles as you walk
  3. Pick bird, plant or tree as a topic and try to identify as many as you can on your walk
  4. Add in random exercises: squats, toe raises, lunges, tree or fence push ups
  5. Whistle or hum random tunes 
  6. Stop and shake your whole body to release tension 
  7. Pump your arms like you are running fast
  8. Breath- long slow deep breaths
  9. Look for beauty in your surroundings
  10. Try walking mediation- focus your mind on your feet and how each step feels 

 

Get creative and add fun to your walking by looking around and enjoying the beauty around you

No matter what you do get outside when you can, exercise in fresh air is good for your mental health. Walk around your house or all of these ideas can be done walking in place to music of your choice. Self care is not optional, it is critical to your overall health.

 

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Mediate for Unconditional Friendship with Yourself

 

I thought meditation was about being calm and getting grounded.

 What I learned from listening to *Pema Chondron is more interesting. Her definition of meditation is that to mediate you are learning to develop unconditional friendship with yourself.

 That sitting and listening to your mind as it runs around all over the place takes patience and understanding. When you meditate you are seeking to just accept you wherever you are, however you are feeling right now. 

Meditate for unconditional friendship with yourself

What is unconditional friendship? 

An unconditional friend: listens and accepts me for who I am. A friend who doesn’t try to change, improve or fix me. If I meditate with the idea that I can be my own unconditional friend: this allows me to experience meditation as a journey of discovery. I am no longer trying so hard to do it right. What a relief.  

I have learned from experience within the Quaker tradition of Sunday Meeting, that sitting in silence with a group brings synergy and energy to the quiet space of reflection.

The challenge for me now is to have an individual practice of quiet meditation.

Mediation is becoming my quiet space in the morning. It is simply a way to set up my day. A place to breathe and be still is a way to feel grounded for the rest of the day.

Do I meditate every day? No. I am practicing on myself. I allow myself the freedom to sit quietly for 1 min or 10 min,  and let any choice be acceptable. I am striving to keep making those choices that support my needs. 

I gain value with meditation as a practice. Practice is not about perfection, just experience. That small difference is very important. Practice to learn. Unconditional friendship starts within.

*Living with Vulnerability. Pema Chondron. Sounds True.

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Is Mindful Eating Stressful for Busy People?

Mindful eating as a practice is great.  Mindful eating can reduce stress by slowing down to pay attention to what you eat. Is mindful eating stressful for busy people?

If mindful eating just another goal that you are too busy to attempt it can create more stress.  How you approach mindful eating makes it simple or stressful.

Why is it so difficult to slow down and pay attention to your food?

Grab and go has become the standard when you run out of time. Fast food has drive through windows for the busy person who can eat while driving to the next appointment. Schedules are hectic, so you are busy doing other things while you eat. Feeling bad about what and how you eat just creates another stress factor.

What is Mindful eating?

Mindful eating is simply paying attention to the food that you eat. Treating your meals as a specific activity that requires your full attention.  Paying attention to how you feel, how food tastes and how you react to specific food choices.

What are the benefits of Mindful eating?

You slow down your eating time. That allows your brain to catch up and signal you when you are full. You give yourself a break by avoiding multitasking for a short period of time each day.

  • You learn to eat when you are hungry and stop when you feel full
  • You learn to appreciate the taste of food, which leads to thoughtful choices about what you eat.
  • You pay attention to how you feel based on the types of food you just ate.

Consider taking just one small step towards mindful eating. Pick a meal or time that you can commit to paying attention to your food. Be consistent even if you only choose one meal a week. This will lead to success instead of stress.

  •  Eat only when you are actually hungry
  • Listen to your body and stop eating when you feel full
  • Give eating your full attention: Avoid eating in front of the TV

Mindful eating can help you make better choices for healthy options. Pick one aspect of mindful eating to focus on at a time. Be consistent so that you develop the habit of  food awareness. Keep it simple. Enjoy what you eat.

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Sugar – What you don’t know about added sugar can Hurt you

 

What you don’t know about added sugar can hurt you

The average person takes in 22 teaspoons of sugar a day. Yet the recommenced amount by the American Heart Association is just 6 tsp for women and 9 tsp for men daily. This is added sugar, not counted is the natural occurring sugar in fruit or foods with fiber. A typical soda has 8 tsp of added sugar. What you don’t know about added sugar can hurt you.

How does this added sugar hurt you?

Ten reasons why sugar is bad for you

  1. Sugar is the biggest cause of obesity- sugar intakes drives insulin, which is our fat storing hormone. Sugar is addictive and stimulates our appetite to eat more.
  2. Sugar is the biggest cause of Type 2 diabetes- changing lifestyle and eating habits can help someone in the pre diabetic stage to avoid the life long consequences of diabetes. (Type 2 diabetes only).
  3. Sugar is related to cardiac health and high blood pressure. The extra insulin in your bloodstream can affect your arteries or circulation system in a way that adds stress to your heart
  4. Sugar gives you tooth decay. Snacks and sweets that are loaded with sugar contribute to tooth decay and tooth lose at any age
  5. Sugar crowds out nutritious foods. When you fill up on junk or sugar packed food, you are eating more food with less nutritious content. Creating a lifestyle of being over fed and undernourished.
  6. Sugar is linked to depression. The state of having high and low blood sugars impacts our moods and energy levels.
  7. Sugar is linked to inflammation- this extra sugar can worsen joint pain
  8. Sugar makes your skin age faster. Sugar attaches to proteins in your blood stream and creates harmful molecules that age your skin faster than normal.
  9. Eating sugar gives your brain an immediate boost with a chemical called dopamine. So you feel good immediately, however you start to crave more sugar to keep that feeling. This is the cycle of sugar addition.
  10. Extra sugar at night means you are more likely to wake up in the middle of the night.

Pick any one of these reasons as good enough to start changing your sugar habits.

Reading labels is key. Eating real food and avoiding processed or fast food will help more than anything.

 

https://www.webmd.com/diet/features/how-sugar-affects-your-body

 

Water up: The hidden benefits of drinking water

 

 

Water is an essential nutrient that your body needs on a regular basis. Fluid losses occur daily through sweating, exercise, normal bathroom habits and breathing. Dehydration occurs when your water intake does not equal your output. High altitudes, hot days, strenuous exercise or too busy to pay attention are all reasons that people don’t get enough water in their system. Roughly 60 % of your body is fluid. Here are some of the hidden benefits of drinking water.

Water can be really helpful for weight loss.

It is 100% calorie-free, helps you burn more calories and may even suppress your appetite if consumed before meals.
The benefits are even greater when you replace sugary beverages with water. It is a very easy way to cut back on sugar and calories.

Muscle Fuel
Sweating with exercise causes muscles to lose water. When the muscles don’t have enough water they get tired. Water reduces the tendency for muscle cramps.

 

Drinking water helps your brain function

Fatigue and low energy
Water can help with fatigue, as tiredness is a common symptom of dehydration. Your brain is part of your system that needs adequate fluids; so consider adding water when you reach those afternoon brain drain times.

Flushes out toxins- Kidneys are responsible for processing and sifting out toxins in your system, they need enough fluids to clear out what your body needs to pass out and get rid of.

Improves skin complexion
Think of your skin as a sponge. When your skin gets dry, it contracts and gets flaky. When the cells in your skin are plump and elastic they are less susceptible to irritation.

Maintains regularity in your digestive system and bowel habits
Adequate water and fiber keep your digestive system flowing normally

Natural headache remedy- Dehydration can trigger headaches and migraines in some people. Drinking extra water can reduce those pesky hangover symptoms

Tips to drink more water:
Keep a bottle or glass of water near by.
Eat fruits and vegetables: about 20 % of your fluid intake comes from food.
Drink water will every meal or snack
Choose plain water over soda or high calorie energy drinks that contain sugar

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Simple ways to Reduce Stress

 

 

Thinking about stress relief can relieve stress in reality. When it comes to simple ways to reduce stress, what we think about matters.

 

 

When you engage in positive thinking, visual relaxation and affirmations, you could lower the levels of stress. Because stress is usually resulted by over-thinking, if you change your thoughts, you can get an instant relaxation.

Change your attitude can change your stress level. True or false? True.

This is particularly true for those pessimists, perfectionists and “type A” personalities. Those people with the features above usually have certain behavior and thought patterns that cause their body to have too much to deal with.

What can you do to reduce stress?

Simple ways to reduce stress. Even those simple things like dark chocolate, music, meditation, laughing, exercise or even sleeping can help you reduce stress effectively and leave you feeling bright, fresh and rejuvenated.

Laughing can lower the stress hormones such as epinephrine, cortisol, and adrenaline, and strengthen the immune system by producing health improving hormones.

Playing with your pets can reduce stress. Pets offer non-judgmental companionship, which is a big plus to your mental outlook. Playing or petting an animal can increase levels of the stress-reducing hormone oxytocin and decrease production of the stress hormone cortisol.

Exercise can reduce stress

Exercise increases your overall health and your sense of well-being, which puts more pep in your step every day. But exercise also has some direct stress-busting benefits. It pumps up your endorphins. Physical activity helps bump up the production of your brain’s feel-good neurotransmitters, called endorphins.

Does it matter what type of exercise? No. Anything that you enjoy will decrease stress. Getting outside in natural sunlight can be the most enjoyable activity and easy to do.

Simple ways to reduce stress starts with your thoughts and attitude. Look for one easy thing you can do. Make that new habit part of your daily self-care plan.

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Work Life Balance made Simple

How to make work life balance simple:

  • Everything is not equally important. Do fewer things and do them well.
  • Decide what your values are — and which ones take precedence.
  • Do the things that get results.
  • Focus on the things only you can do.
  • Do the important things, which must be done now.

Work life balance can be simple over time. It won’t be resolved tomorrow but you can get much, much better at this with practice.

Five Key concepts that make work life balance simple:

  1. Learn to say no.

Say no to requests that are not your highest-level priority. Ask your self: am I being helpful or I am doing someone else’s work for them? Is this the best use of my time right now?

You can do anything once you stop trying to do everything.

When you say yes to one request, stop to think what you are saying no to at the same time. You can only spend your time on one thing at a time.

  1. Plan ahead.

Planning out your schedule makes sure the important things get done. Setting up a list for each day, helps you stay on track.

Schedule the important things on your calendar. If getting to your daughters soccer game is important, put that on the schedule.

Schedule some time for yourself as if it was an important meeting.

When you plan ahead for your high value activities, they happen. If you neglect to plan you end up dealing with what ever comes at you in a random fashion.

That feels like a lack of control and is exhausting to react rather than take action.

 

  1. Bundle chores or errands.

Check your patterns; be mindful of how you spend your time and the choices you make on a daily/ weekly basis. How many trips to you make to the grocery store?

When you have a plan for meals you can reduce time spent at the store and preparing meals. Plan ahead for errands and take once a week to do them.

Return phone calls in a batch at work. Save low priority tasks for when you need a mental break.

 

  1. Manage work time

Start each day with the high priority list. Plan ahead on what time you will leave work each day. Cut back on distractions by closing your door or asking questions when you are interrupted. Asking questions can save everyone time. Ask about time, priority and who else is involved before you take on another project.

What is the deadline for this? What do you need from me right now? If someone brings you a problem or needs help: ask first: What solutions do you have in mind? Or ask what have you tried first? Refer back to # 1. Learn to say no.

 

  1. Enjoy weekends and vacation time.

When you are home, really be home. Keep work out of your personal time.

Unplug from work emails, phone calls or texts. Don’t feel like you have to spend every spare moment on chores or tasks. Set up personal rest time doing something fun and enjoyable, even if it seems wasteful. It is not. Time for self-care is critical to enjoying your life and reducing stress.

My final few thoughts are about letting go of expectations and being perfect.

Give up on perfection. Good enough is good enough for many tasks. Other people can do things instead of you doing everything. You just have to let them.

Gaining a work life balance is a process. Reflecting on what is important to you is the first step to making changes that last. Feeling unbalanced? Contact Gwen for a grounding coaching session.

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Compassion Fatigue Are you at Risk?

If you find yourself emotionally and physically exhausted, easily irritated and blaming others for problems on a daily basis: you could be suffering from compassion fatigue.

There are many resources for how to recognize, prevent and treat compassion fatigue. I would like to focus on the coaching approach to dealing with this chronic and debilitating condition. Coaching is unique in starting with examining your personal operating beliefs.   Your beliefs drive your actions on a daily basis. Reflection and examining your beliefs is the key to changing your actions. If you believe that putting the needs of others first is important, then your actions will reflect that belief. If you believe that you are totally responsible for healing an injured animal than you will take on all of the pain and disappointment if that animal fails to thrive. If you believe that you must be perfect with every task at work, than you will consider any misstep a personal failure.

A strong identification with weak, suffering, helpless animals or people contribute to higher levels of compassion fatigue. Caring to much and taking on all the emotional blame for any outcome is part of a belief that you need to care more than any one else in order to help others.

So the reason that many people are attracted to a caring, helping profession is also the reason they are at higher risk for compassion fatigue.

Check your self against these common symptoms:

  • Emotional exhaustion
  • Reduced sense of personal accomplishment or meaning in work
  • Poor habits of self-care
  • Excessive blaming
  • Isolations for others
  • Physical exhaustion and chronic fatigue
  • Compulsive behaviors such as overeating, overspending or binge TV watching
  • Substance abuse to mask feelings
  • Pent up emotions
  • Difficulty concentrating or making basic decisions

How does Spiral Coaching help with compassion fatigue?

Coaching is based on self-learning, self-compassion and reflection to make adjustments in your normal patterns that support a healthier, happier you. Resilient people practice self-care, exercise regularly, eat healthy and have strong support systems. Do You?  Practicing self compassion is a way to recharge your emotional batteries. Using a journal with a coach gives you a guide for faster results

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How would you rate your stress level today? Do you have signs of compassion fatigue?

What are you willing to do about improving your life right now?

What beliefs drive your actions? Do those beliefs support a healthy lifestyle?

These are basic coaching questions that start the process of moving in a direction of creating positive changes for you.

If you don’t like where you are, you must be willing to take action before your life will change.

Take a step forward today. Contact Coach Gwen Veterinarian Services – go to your page

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How to lower Stress / High Blood Pressure Naturally

 

Learning to take a deep breath will lower stress and manage high blood pressure naturally. There are a few surprising things you can do that help with both stress and high blood pressure.

Stress increases your fight or flight reaction in a crisis. This is a helpful response in an emergency. The problem is living in that highly reactive state is harmful to both your physical and emotional self. Studies show that blood pressure is and stress are related. Stress can effectively raise blood pressure and managing stress with breathing can lower blood pressure. This relationship is dynamic with many other factors. What we do know is that learning to use relaxation techniques like deep breathing help both high blood pressure and stress. How can you get out of that stressful reactive state naturally?

Simply taking a deep breath is a good way to start. A focus on breathing is at the core of various relaxation techniques.

10 ways to lower your blood pressure naturally

  • Learn breathing exercises- Deep slow breathing is the oldest and best-known technique to decrease stress.

Taking 4 deep breaths in through your nose and out for a count of 5 is a method you can do at work without any special equipment. If you have the time, than imagine yourself in a relaxing place while you focus on deep breathing for 1-3 min.
Power Walk- 30- 60 minutes a day can help bring down your blood pressure numbers. Walk outside when you can, fresh air and sunshine add to the fun

Play with your pet – Playing with or petting an animal can increase levels of the stress-reducing hormone oxytocin and decrease production of the stress hormone cortisol.

Music is effective for relaxation and stress

  • Music can have a profound effect on both the emotions and the body. … Upbeat music can make you feel more optimistic and positive about life. A slower tempo can quiet your mind and relax your muscles, making you feel soothed while releasing the stress of the day.
  • Reduce salt intake- The AHA recommends limiting your sodium intake to 1,500 milligrams (mg) per day. That’s a little over half a teaspoon. 
To decrease sodium in your diet, don’t add salt to your food. One teaspoon of table salt has 2,300 mg of sodium! Use herbs and spices to add flavor food.
  • Eat a healthy diet with lots of vegetables, fruits and fiber. Eliminating foods that are high in saturated fats, such as processed foods, full-fat dairy products, and fatty meats It helps to cut back on desserts and sweetened beverages, such as soda and fruit drinks.
  • Lose the extra weight. Pay attention to your food intake, increase your activity level. All calories are not the same. Contact Gwen about the Transitions Lifestyle program.
  • Manage your stress- look at the root causes of your stress triggers
  • Get full nights sleep- Sleep allows our energy level to replenish and physical body to rest. Follow a pattern to set yourself up for sleep by avoiding technology and visual stimulation 30 minutes before your normal bedtime.

Need a free app to help the habit of deep breathing? Try Breath2Relax

Read more about exercise that helps click below:

AHA guidelines for exercise that lowers blood pressure

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